I'm not a saint, but that wont stop me from saying the truth..... LADIES!!.. That different guys pick you up every Friday night does not make you a big girl... That you wear all the clothes in the market, does not make you a big girl, that you use the latest phone and different guys paid money into your account, does not make you a big girl... WHO IS A BIG GIRL?!.. A big girl a girl with enough brain in her, not the one with more money... She is not the one who flirt all the men in her mood... She is the girl who respect her relationship and marriage.. She is never heard but seen... You know her from what she does, her behaviour speaks a lot about her... She is not expensively dressed but she is the most decently dressed... A big girl respects the sanity of womanhood... She carries herself with more dignity... Stop boasting about the number of men you sleep withmy dear... Remember the cheap article have more buyers.. Build your self into the woman that people will always respect and admire... Never follow them around butbe yourself... Be bold but humble, be Godly.. Be hard working, respect your relationship or marriage.. Be ambitious but contented.. Dont make men your priority in life.. But build yourself into the woman men will always want to take home to their mama.. Not the one they only want to take to hotels and clubs... Trust me, if you just trap a man with your body, he will go one day, because more pretty girls are becoming adult on a daily basis...